Saturday, January 10, 2009

A Person's Character Will Determine His Future

I realize that this few months, I've been keep talking about relationship and leadership a lot. I feel that this 2 are very important thing for one's future. If you don't have either of them, do you think you will have a bright future to live in peace? Well, for me, I don't think you will ever live in peace if you don't have a good relationship and good leadership.

Some will say that it is not necessary to have leadership in your life, because not everyone will want to be leader. But, if you don't have leadership, will you lead yourself successfully? If you don't have leadership, will you organize well of you punctuality in time? In working field, all what they want is time-management. If you don't have leadership, will you success in your own time management? Will you ever success in your working field?

And some will say that to be a good leader, relationship is not really important. The relationship I'm talking here is the relationship about family, friends, customers, etc.. If you don't have a good relationship, will you success to be a leader? A good relationship here also mean that you must have a good communication and manner with those people i mentioned. When you communicate with your customer, are you going to talk to them sacarstically, rude, etc..?? If you behave in this manner, do you think that customer will ever come to you again?

If you ask me what is the link of family relationship with leadership and working field and here's my answer. When you firstly come into working field, who will know who the heck are you? If not because of your family members telling their friends of what is your job and trying to advertise for you, who are you in the market? You as a business person, where you gonna get support from market? Do you think market nowadays will just simply go to a stranger to buy stuff? If you ever have a bad relationship in family, see and watch out how you gonna be success in your working field. Do you think you will? Think twice before answer me.

To be a leader is not an easy job. It is depends on your characteristic. Whether you're a good leader or not, people can judge you from the way you talk, behave, and act. People can read you through your body language. So, change yourself before people change your life by not supporting you. I will not say that i'm a successful or a good leader, but I'm still doing my best to be one. I'm not success to be a leader yet because I admit that I don't have a good relationship with family but I'm doing my best to repair the broken holes. I am going to prove to the world that I will be one. And in future, I am one successful leader.

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